Heres the basics, I am a 46 year old single male living in the Metro St. Louis area. I am actually in Illinois but can see the city from my house. I am a biker at heart,in stature and everything else, rough around the edges but trust me you will not find a more devoted friend. If you are my friend, I have your back no questions asked! My best friend for the past 17 years has been the lovely woman you see in my default picture. We can talk to each other about ANYTHING, I know more about her than her husband does and she knows more about me than anyone ever will. Don't ask me how it works just know it is possible to be friends with the opposite sex. Try it, ya might like it..LOL

I have long brown hair that sometimes can be a nuisance, but every time I get irritated I think of all the kids that I have helped throughout the years via Locks of Love. If you aren't aware of the cause, Locks of Love provides prosthetic wigs to children who for one reason or the other are unable to grow hair. The immediate changes you see in these children when they receive their hair makes it all worthwhile. Look it up on the web!! I am or have been involved in several charities, mostly aimed at children's causes. If we dont help them..who will??

I am searching for a soul mate, someone who has long ago dumped the baggage of previous failed relationships and just wants to enjoy life without drama. I am self sufficient, can cook, clean and take care of myself in EVERY way, but damn I miss the companionship that only a woman can bring. I am old enough to know sex is only part of the equation.

If you want to know anything else about me, just ask!

Here are a few pet peeves of mine in regards to fubar:

1. If your profile says male, and your default picture is a female without some sort of explanation(ie.. wife, girlfriend, baby mama..etc) do not even bother talking to me. I hate frauds. period..end of discussion.

2. While I am on the subject, if your profile is female or male and you do not have at least one picture of YOU uploaded or an approved salute for all to see, see last sentence item #1.

3. Do not beg me for a blast, VIP, etc. and promise me if I do I will get to see naked pictures of you, if I want to see women pimping themselves there are places I can go to do so. If I so choose to purchase a gift for someone it will be because I want to out of the goodness of my heart.

4. If you are on my friends list, and on more than one occasion My Bar Tab is completely filled with nothing but your uploads to stash or 100's of pics of inanimate objects, I will remove you. I appreciate someones love for animals, death metal, flowers..etc but for God's sake spread out the uploads!!

5. I am a single male who appreciates the female form in various states of undress, call me a pervert if you like but as this is an adult website..I guess that makes us all a little perverted, doesn't it?

6. I enjoy intelligent and intellectual conversations with females AND males. That having been said, I am a straight male just in case any of the guys have other ideas. Any other subject is open to debate. Ladies, you can talk to me about ANYTHING your heart desires.

7. I want to take the time to genuinely thank all of you who take the time to fill out the "About Me" section of their profiles, believe it or not there are some of us who take the time to read it.

8. Can some of these profiles get any more "busy"? I have high speed internet and a top of the line computer and there are times when some of these pages lock me up completely! Background music, music player, 3 different slideshow programs..etc I love the fact that you are trying to show who you are via your profile page but enough is enough.


That should just about do it for now, have been here long enough that I felt some things needed to be said. If anything I said offends any member here, please feel free to block access to your profile because I am not likely to change my mind.

Kev