Over the years, I've put together a vast store of information on myself, located on my website (http://www.lothie.com). Most of it is there at other peoples' request, and I expect anyone who really wants to get to know me to read it, and revisit it once or twice a year to check for changes.

However, to give you a quick idea:

- I'm a geek by profession. Oh yes I am.

- I'm polyamorous and bisexual. Currently I'm involved with several people in very wonderful and committed relationships. My dance card is pretty damn full and I am very much not looking for anyone new. I'm not really interested in any casual hookups.

- I'm kinky. I know how to use that chicken, baby. My relationships don't have to include BDSM, but most of them do. I'm a switch, meaning I'm comfortable at either end of a whip.

Now go read the damn web site.